Breaking Stereotypes: Abhay Verma on Evolving Masculinity and the Power of Vulnerability
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As International Men's Day is observed, actor Abhay Verma shares his thoughts on the changing definition of manhood. Growing up in Haryana, Verma was exposed to a traditional view of masculinity that emphasized physical strength and power over empathy and understanding. However, he notes that this mindset is slowly shifting, with men becoming more comfortable expressing their emotions and vulnerabilities. Verma, known for his roles in Munjya and upcoming rom-coms, believes that men should strive to be 'better men' by prioritizing empathy and understanding. He credits his sister and mother for helping him develop a more sensitive side, saying they 'make me a better man than anyone else.' In the film industry, Verma is part of a growing trend of sensitive romantic heroes. When asked about the rise of 'alpha men' on screen, he argues that these terms are subjective and should not be confused with real life. Instead, he advocates for men to channel both their 'alpha' and 'sensitive' sides in different situations. Verma observes that the current generation of men is more understanding and sensitive towards women, citing the example of women feeling comfortable discussing their periods with men. However, he also notes that this generation can learn from the previous one by prioritizing genuine love and emotional intimacy over superficial relationships. Verma concludes by emphasizing the importance of emotional intelligence and vulnerability in men, saying that it's 'beautiful when you are able to be yourself.' As the entertainment industry continues to evolve, Verma's words offer a timely reminder of the need for men to redefine traditional notions of masculinity and prioritize empathy and understanding.
